Saturday, December 20, 2025

variations on vigilance

2 wolves inside me but
both the one at the door

a life 
organized around
perimeter defense
some of us
don’t get
an
inside

the hyper-attuned 
caretaker
reading microshifts in others
managing tone
preempting needs
smoothing danger before
it erupts
the “good” one
the socially rewarded one
the one people call
kind
capable
strong

the one that snarls inward
that mistrusts rest
tightens when things go quiet
that knows catastrophe
follows softness
the one that learned
being unguarded
gets you
hurt
humiliated
erased

this is not a romanticized
inner conflict this is
chronic siege

goodness did not protect you
obedience did not protect you
endurance did not protect you
silence did not protect you
a system adapted
by refusing to choose
neither wolf can be trusted to win
both must stay awake

there is only ever room
for one role in your life
every part of you
drafted into it

no artist

no child

no resting body

just variations on vigilance

need & alone
are the same
feeling to me

just in case
you wondered
where

all the rage is from

sorry if that
was “shitty &
try too hard”

i am tired of
going
without

in every semblance
of the phrase

what if my greatest fear
is unregulated aliveness

late to myself because
i was early for 

everyone else

what is it like
to be held
while you’re
hurting

how do you
carry yourself up
a mountain

what will it
cost me

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